What are you looking for?
What do you want?
What do you need? 
What are you searching for?
What is your aim?
What is your purpose?
These questions should be with you always in a healthy context and then recognize that other people have their answers to these questions(If they ask themselves) and it is okay if they are totally different to you
Further whether we answer these questions or not a void does not ensue if you dont find your purpose or agenda you become part of someone else's