Sunday, December 18, 2016

If you had unlimited resources what would you love to do,fill your day with?

Monday, November 28, 2016

Asking the right relevant, questions can often help people choose to discover so much about themselves and lead to amazing changes in their lives
Questions that Limit(closed questions)
Closed questions limit creativity. When we ask a question that includes an answer, the listener must respond to that answer, often with a “yes” or “no.” This type of question doesn’t cause a lot of reflection because the options for response are extremely limited in other words a closed question.
One reason we ask limiting questions is because we are stuck in our own perspective. We have ideas and when we form questions, those questions come out with our answers embedded in them.
Questions that Generate Possibilities(Open ended questions)
Ask questions that promote creativity and generate possibilities by asking more broadly about the topic. Begin your questions with the words: What, How, or Who.
These questions have unlimited possible answers. The listener is not merely saying “yes” or “no” to your idea. Questions with these words tend to produce more reflection and fuller answers . Most important, they stimulate the creativity and generate possibilities for the listener.
There is risk in doing this. The response to an open ended question can go in many different directions. Asking open ended questions require a coach to give up control of the response. But creativity and new possibilities only emerge when we move beyond what we know and think has to be and explore what could be.
What centers you?
Where do you live emotionally?
No man or women is an island , who are the people that have positively given to you throughout your life, from the seemingly smallest thing to the biggest?
From What or Whence do you draw your inspiration?
What/Who do you see when you look in the mirror?
How would you feel if instead of indoctrinating yourself to what has to be you chose to be open to what could be ?
What would your positively ideal self advise you today?
If there was an extra hour every day how would you fill it?
If you were assured of success what would you choose to do with your life?
What animates you?
When you speak to people do you feel that they are truly listening,do you feel heard?

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Yom HaShoa:-Coaching Question

A terrible dark destructive time,beyond description where people made all manner of choices.
In your darkest times what types of choices did you make and where did they lead?

Yom Hazikaron - Coaching Question

In what way would you consider and appreciate daily who and what others may have lost and how would you actively cherish the gift of each extra day that G-D blesses you with?

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Purim Coaching:

What mask do you love to wear?
What mask do you hide behind?
What mask do you find hard to take off?
What mask do you know you need to take off?
What is stopping you from not wearing masks at all?
Do you wear specific masks with different people?
Do you where differen masks in different situations?